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在独处的静谧的时刻，你会思考些什么？是已经走过的路，还是尚未抵达的远方？是你的优势，还是你的缺陷？是最美好的可能，还是最糟糕的结局？
在这些安静的片刻，请留心你的思绪。因为或许 —— 只是或许 —— 要让你获得更多幸福、更多爱与更多生命活力，所需要的，只是改变你的思维方式。
有人说，一个人的生活质量，取决于他思想的深度与广度。换言之，我们并非活在世界本来的样子里，而是活在自己思维的投射之中。而改变思维的方式，就有可能改变整个生命的走向。
这篇《77句改变你思维方式的箴言》来自生活的智慧、哲人的思索、实践的结晶。它们如同镜子，让你在字里行间看见自己的内心；也像一把钥匙，帮你开启被固有观念封锁的心灵之门。
你或许会在其中一句话里，读到未曾表达的痛苦或始终难解的迷茫；或在某一条目中，找到继续前行的勇气。提醒我们 —— 爱比成就重要，行动胜过幻想，而真正的自由，来自思想的转变。
愿你在阅读的过程中，不仅获得片刻的启迪，更能点燃深层的思考，甚至引发人生的转折。因为有时，改变命运并不需要轰轰烈烈的事件，只需要一个新的念头，一种新的看待世界的方式。
思想决定行为，行为决定习惯
习惯决定性格，性格决定命运
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NO.01 你无法改变那些你拒绝直面的事。
You cannot change what you refuse to confront.
NO.02 有时候，好事的崩塌只是为了让更好的事物得以重组。
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together.
NO.03 不要只考虑成本，更要考虑价值。
Don’t think of cost. Think of value.
NO.04 有时你需要保持距离，才能真正看清全貌。
Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
NO.05 太多人花着自己并不真正拥有的钱，去购买并不需要的东西，只为取悦那些并不相识的人。
Too many people buy things they don’t need with money they don’t have to impress people they don’t know.
NO.06 无论你犯过多少错或步伐多么迟缓，依然遥遥领先于那些从未尝试的人。
No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.
NO.07 若某人想真心融入你的生命，他必会付出清晰可见的努力。因此，在为那些不愿留下的人念念不忘之前，请三思。
If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.
NO.08 让一个人展颜一笑，足以改变一个世界 —— 或许不是整个世界，但至少是他的世界。
Making one person smile can change the world – maybe not the whole world, but their world.
NO.09 谈论别人丑陋，并不会让你自身更美丽。
Saying someone is ugly doesn’t make you any prettier.
NO.10 那些所谓的「凡人」，往往只是因为你尚未真正了解他们。
The only normal people you know are the ones you don’t know very well.
NO.11 人生只有10%取决于发生在你身上的事，而90%则取决于你如何回应它。
Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it.
NO.12 最令人痛心的，是在深爱一个人的过程中迷失了自我，忘却了自己同样是独一无二、值得珍视的存在。
The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.
NO.13 随着年岁渐长，我们渐渐明白，朋友的数量不重要，重要的是拥有几个真正的朋友。
As we grow up, we realize it becomes less important to have more friends and more important to have real ones.
NO.14 宁可一人独处，也不要与糟糕的同伴为伍。
It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.
NO.15 结交一百个朋友并非奇迹，真正的奇迹，是当世人皆与你为敌时，仍有一个朋友坚定地站在你身边。
Making a hundred friends is not a miracle. The miracle is to make a single friend who will stand by your side even when hundreds are against you.
NO.16 放弃并不意味着软弱，有时恰恰说明你足够坚强与聪慧，懂得放手，继续前行。
Giving up doesn’t always mean you’re weak, sometimes it means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go and move on.
NO.17 别再说你没有足够的时间。你每日所拥有的时光，与海伦·凯勒、巴斯德、米开朗基罗、特蕾莎修女、达·芬奇、托马斯·杰斐逊、爱因斯坦……完全相同。
Don’t say you don’t have enough time. You have exactly the same number of hours per day that were given to Helen Keller, Pasteur, Michelangelo, Mother Teresea, Leonardo da Vinci, Thomas Jefferson, Albert Einstein, etc…
NO.18 墜入爱河并非选择，而坚守爱情却是。
Falling in love is not a choice. To stay in love is.
NO.19 若你真心想成就一件事，定会找方法；若你并非真心想要，只会找借口。
If you really want to do something, you’ll find a way. If you don’t, you’ll find an excuse.
NO.20 当你忙于寻找「完美之人」时，往往会错过那个虽不完美，却能带给你真正幸福的人。
While you’re busy looking for the perfect person, you’ll probably miss the imperfect person who could make you perfectly happy.
NO.21 真爱不在于形影不离，而在于纵使相隔千里，依然彼此真诚以待。
True love isn’t about being inseparable; it’s about two people being true to each other even when they are separated.
NO.22 不要选择那个对世人而言最美的人，而要选择能让你的世界最美的人。
Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world; choose the one who makes your world beautiful.
NO.23 别因一时的情绪失控，而铸下永远无法挽回的愚行。
Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily upset.
NO.24 错误若不被否认，便能化为最深刻的导师。
You can learn great things from your mistakes when you aren’t busy denying them.
NO.25 生命旅途中，若你拒绝冒险，其实正是拿整个人生去冒险。
In life, if you don’t risk anything, you risk everything.
NO.26 当你不再执迷追逐错误之物，正确的事物才有机会主动拥抱你。
When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.
NO.27 你生命中发生的一切，都在为未来某个尚未到来的时刻作准备。
Every single thing that has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.
NO.28 超越他人并不高贵，真正的高贵在于不断超越过去的自己。
There isn’t anything noble about being superior to another person. True nobility is in being superior to the person you once were.
NO.29 竭力模仿他人，只会荒废你原本独一无二的存在。
Trying to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.
NO.30 若你始终将自己的遭遇归咎于他人，就永远无法成为理想中的自己。
You will never become who you want to be if you keep blaming everyone else for who you are now.
NO.31 一个人真实的样子，往往藏在他们不愿示人的部分，而非展示的面孔。People are more what they hide than what they show.
NO.32 我们常常在对方停止付出时，才意识到自己曾经得到过多少。
Sometimes people don’t notice the things others do for them until they stop doing them.
NO.33 不要只听某人承诺什么，要看他们真正做了什么。
Don’t listen to what people say, watch what they do.
NO.34 独处并不等于孤独，而孤独也并不意味着身边无人。
Being alone does not mean you are lonely, and being lonely does not mean you are alone.
NO.35 爱，不在于肉体的结合、奢华的约会或刻意的炫耀；而在于那个人能带给你的快乐，无人能替代。
Love is not about sex, going on fancy dates, or showing off. It’s about being with a person who makes you happy in a way nobody else can.
NO.36 任何人都可以走进你的生命，说「我爱你」；唯有真正特别的人，会留在你的人生中，用行动诠释「我爱你」。
Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you. It takes someone really special to stay in your life and show how much they love you.
NO.37 点燃蜡烛，铺上最好的床单，穿上精致的衣裳。别把它们留待某个所谓特别的日子 —— 今天，本身就很特别。
Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion; today is special.
NO.38 珍惜并感激父母。我们常忙于长大，却忘了他们也在慢慢变老。
Love and appreciate your parents. We are often so busy growing up; we forget they are also growing old.
NO.39 当你被迫为了迎合他人而妥协自我与原则时，或许正是提醒你更换身边圈子的时候。
When you have to start compromising yourself and your morals for the people around you, it’s probably time to change the people around you.
NO.40 当有人对你说「你变了」，或许只是因为你不再按照他们想要的方式生活。
When someone tells you, “You’ve changed,” it might simply be because you’ve stopped living your life their way.
NO.41 你要正确，并不意味着别人必须错误。
Someone else doesn’t have to be wrong for you to be right.
NO.42 学会先爱自己，而不是执着于别人爱你的幻象。
Learn to love yourself first, instead of loving the idea of other people loving you.
NO.43 快乐一点，做真实的自己。若有人不喜欢，那就随他们去吧。幸福是一种选择，人生不是用来取悦所有人的。
Be happy. Be yourself. If others don’t like it, then let them be. Happiness is a choice. Life isn’t about pleasing everybody.
NO.44 风光无限时，朋友都认识你；但唯有跌入低谷，你才真正认清谁是朋友。
When you’re up, your friends know who you are. When you’re down, you know who your friends are.
NO.45 若你以为自己待人公正，世界便会同样公平对待你，那只是自欺。这就像指望狮子不吃你，只因为你没吃过它。
If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you’re fooling yourself. That’s like expecting the lion not to eat you because you didn’t eat him.
NO.46 无论境遇好坏，每天醒来都要心怀感恩。因为在世界的某个角落，总有人正拼命为自己的生命而挣扎。
No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs.
NO.47 哪怕最微小的善举，也胜过最宏大的空想。
The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.
NO.48 许多人之所以贫瘠，并非因为缺少财富，而是除了金钱以外一无所有。
Many people are so poor because the only thing they have is money.
NO.49 别去寻找那个能替你解决所有问题的人，而要寻找那个愿意与你一同面对问题的人。
Don’t look for someone who will solve all your problems; look for someone who will face them with you.
NO.50 在时间迫使你怀念「曾经拥有」之前，先学会珍惜「正在拥有」。
Learn to appreciate the things you have before time forces you appreciate the things you once had.
NO.51 当你选择看见他人身上的美好时，你最终也会发现自己内在的美好。
When you choose to see the good in others, you end up finding the good in yourself.
NO.52 落水并不会让你溺毙，停留其中不挣扎才会。
You don’t drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
NO.53 宁可因得知真相而失望，也不要因未知而终身困惑。
It’s better to know and be disappointed than to never know and always wonder.
NO.54 有些事我们不愿发生却不得不接受，有些事我们不愿知晓却不得不学习，有些人我们无法失去却终究要学会放手。
There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go.
NO.55 幸福从不取决于周遭境遇，而在于内心的状态。大多数人依赖他人来获得幸福，但事实上，幸福始终源于内心。
Happiness is not determined by what’s happening around you, but rather what’s happening inside you. Most people depend on others to gain happiness, but the truth is,it always comes from within.
NO.56 说出真相，它便只属于你的过去；撒下谎言，却会成为你未来的一部分。
If you tell the truth, it becomes a part of your past. If you lie, it becomes a part of your future.
NO.57 你每天重复做的事，比偶尔所为更具决定性。
What you do every day matters more than what you do every once in a while.
NO.58 若你总是反复翻阅上一章，就永远无法开启人生的新篇章。
You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last one.
NO.59 最好的结果，往往属于那些懂得把既有境遇发挥到极致的人。
Things turn out best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.
NO.60 若你不喜欢某事，就试着改变它；若无法改变，那就改变看待它的方式。
If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change the way you think about it.
NO.61 你终将成为你专注的事物，并逐渐像你相处最久的人。
You become what you focus on and like the people you spend time with.
NO.62 人们往往选择做哪些轻松和便利的事，而非真正对自己最有益的事。
People do what seems easy and convenient, not what is best for them.
NO.63 当价值观清晰明确，抉择便不再艰难。
When values are clear, decisions are easy.
NO.64 若你帮助足够多的人实现愿望，你也将得到所渴望的一切。
If you just help enough other people get what they need, you will get everything you need.
NO.65 将人生根基筑在学习之上；因唯有知识与智慧，是无人能够夺走的财富。
Build your house on the rock of learning; no one can take your education away from you.
NO.66 你用什么充盈头脑，与谁共度时光… 将决定未来你拥有怎样的人生。
Whatever you fill your brain with and whoever you spend your time with… will determine your life a decade from now.
NO.67 成功者，甘愿去做那些失败者不愿去做的事。
Successful people willingly do what unsuccessful people are unwilling to do.
NO.68 成功的定义是：你的核心价值观与自我认知，与日常行为和谐一致。
Definition of success: When your core values and self-concept are in harmony with your daily actions and behaviors.
NO.69 请记住：你遇到的每个人，都在与一场强大的战役拼搏。因此请善待他人，怀抱宽容。
Remember: everyone you meet is fighting a mighty battle. Be kind. Be understanding.
NO.70 当你不再期待人生简单、公平、轻松的那一刻，它反而会变得简单、公平而轻松。
The minute you stop expecting life to be simple, fair and easy… it becomes simple, fair and easy.
NO.71 我们所看到的世界，并非真实的样子，而是我们自身的投射。
We see the world not as it is, but as we are.
NO.72 要在生命中有所成就，你必须拥有一个PLAN：PREPARE —— 为旅程做好准备；LAUNCH —— 毅然付诸行动；ADJUST —— 边走边修正方向；NETWORK —— 与智者建立联系。
To be successful in life you must have a PLAN: PREPARE for the journey – LAUNCH into action – ADJUST as you go – NETWORK with those who know.
NO.73 你所成就和未能成就的一切，都是你思想和信念的直接结果。
All that you achieve and all that you fail to achieve are the direct results of your thoughts.
NO.74 我们是自己思想的创造者。思想并非外界强加于我们的，而是我们亲手赋予自己的。
We are the producers of our own thinking. Thought is not something that happens to us, but something that we do to ourselves.
NO.75 人们总是迫切地想要改善处境，却往往不愿先改善自己。
People are anxious to improve their circumstances, but are unwilling to improve themselves.
NO.76 我们吸引来的，并非所渴望的事物，而是我们本身的状态。
People do not attract that which they want, but that which they are.
NO.77 在人生的尽头 —— 在你漫长一生的黄昏，当人们伫立在你的墓前时，没有人会谈论你曾拥有多大的房子，多少辆车，亦或你的游艇与飞机… 他们只会谈论一件事，且仅此一件：爱。你曾多么爱他们，他们又曾多么爱你。
因此，人生唯一的目标，便是过一段充满爱的生命。除此之外，别无他物。
At the end of the day – the long day of your life – as people stand around your grave no one will talk about how big your house was, or how many cars you owned, or your boat or plane… they will only talk about ONE thing and ONE thing ONLY: LOVE! How much you loved them and how much they loved you. So the goal then is to live a life of love. That is all. – John Spence
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你要保守你心，胜过保守一切，
因为一生的果效是由心发出。
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